CLF Conversations

When Saints Collide: A Guide to Christian Makeups Part 2

Episode Summary

Remember last week’s episode where we talked about reconciliation? Well, welcome to Part 2, where we stop tiptoeing around tension and actually do something about it. Because nothing says “Christian maturity” like having that hard convo with someone who still won’t make eye contact during communion. Grab your Bible and maybe a stress ball—we’re going in.

Episode Notes

🎙️ Episode Summary:

In this follow-up episode of CLF Conversations, we continue unpacking the call to reconciliation among believers. Part 1 laid the groundwork—now we’re getting practical. What does it look like to walk in forgiveness when the other person isn’t receptive? How do we know when to involve others in the process? And how can we pursue unity without avoiding the hard truths?

Join us as we talk about the heart work, the messy work, and the Christ-like work of making peace with one another.

🌟 Key Topics Covered:

What to do when reconciliation feels one-sided
The role of leaders and pastors in formal conflict resolution
When to involve others—and when not to
Maintaining unity even when full restoration isn’t possible
Avoiding bitterness while setting healthy boundaries
Building a redemptive culture of confrontation in the church

💬 Discussion Highlights:

Pastoral insight on when to “let love cover” vs. when to confront
How to know if you’re avoiding reconciliation or wisely waiting
Encouragement for those in ongoing relational tension
A look at how churches can be places of restoration, not division
Why choosing humility protects the whole body

📖 Scripture Reference:

Romans 12:18 – “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”
Ephesians 4:1–3 – “...bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit...”
Galatians 6:1 – “...restore him in a spirit of gentleness…”
Proverbs 19:11 – “Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.”

📌 Takeaway Questions:

Are you taking steps toward peace or staying stuck in pride?
What might God be teaching you in a season of unresolved conflict?
Who can help you walk through reconciliation biblically?
How can your actions reflect the gospel—even when reconciliation isn’t mutual?

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